Tedious Boring Slow Very simple and well known concepts are rediscovered by this husband and wife team While I found them pleasant they did the audio version of the book, which I usually prefer , listening to the first three CD s was an exercise in patience slogging through elementary concepts as I awaited the new information When I questioned my own efforts for the fifth or sixth time, I decided that I d heard enough There were no new discoveries hinted at I found no good reason to continue listening and look forward to exchanging this book for a interesting one Thank goodness I didn t purchase it, but used my membership at All Ears Audio Books to check it out. I had a difficult time with this book for a few reasons 1 many of the lessons were common senseaka don t take yourself so seriously 2 I felt like the authors bragged about themselves a bit much I enjoyed the stories they told of other people, but not of themselves 3 I saw hypocrisy in the book when Roz talks about moving on in one lesson then brings up an instance where one of her teachers was always against her.isn t that playing the victim Holding a grudge from when you were in school to call out the person in a book In addition this book revolves around music When I read it was for professional personal life, I expected well rounded examples I do not know anything about music or instruments each chapter had some symphony exampleI would have like to have seen examples across a broader reach of professions. The Art Of Possibility Offers A Set Of Breakthrough Practices For Creativity In All Human Enterprises This Inspirational Book Is A Synthesis Of Rosamund Stone Zander S Knowledge Of Cutting Edge Psychology And Benjamin Zander S Experiences As The Conductor Of The Boston Philharmonic Orchestra Infused With The Energy Of Their Dynamic Partnership, The Book Joins Together Ben S Extraordinary Talent As A Mover And Shaker, Teacher, And Communicator With Rosamund S Genius For Creating Innovative Paradigms For Personal And Professional Fulfillment In Lively Counterpoint, The Authors Provide Us With A Deep Sense Of The Powerful Role That The Notion Of Possibility Can Play In Every Aspect Of Our LivesThe Zanders Deceptively Simple Practices Are Based On Two Premises That Life Is Composed As A Story It S All Invented And That, With New Definitions, Much Is Possible Than People Ordinarily Think The Book Shifts Our Perspective With Uplifting Stories, Parables, And Anecdotes From Giving An A To The Mysterious Rule Number To Leading From Any Chair The Account Of Ben S Stunning Realization That The Conductor Leader S Power Is Directly Linked To How Much Greatness He Is Willing To Grant To Others Each Practice Offers An Opportunity For Personal And Organizational Transformation I highly recommend the audio version of this because the authors enthusiasm shines through as they read it, and because, they actually include classical music excerpts to fully elucidate their examples At the same time, however, I found myself wishing I had a digital or paper copy so that I could easily highlight their words to come back to again and again.The practice and the accompanying rules are inspiring, and definitely difficult to live by all the time which is why they call it a practice , but they especially spoke to me as a parent and an educator They pair nicely with another book I am reading at the moment The Blessing of a B Minus I love the Zanders language about how everything is invented and how we need to escape from the world of measurement and into a world that emphasizes the real self and the we. A standard self help book No new territory I kept thinking, this sounds like Landmark psycho babble Sure enoughat the end they acknowledge Landmark For a really excellent book that does offer something, read On my flights to Belgrade the past couple of days, I finished a great book that has been influencing my thinking in several areas The book was a thoughtful gift from Gayla Nicholson, a board member with Big Brothers Big Sisters of Park County, Wyoming, a recent client.I referenced portions of Ros and Ben Zander s 2002 classic, The Art of Possibility, in the closing keynote I gave at last week s Department of Education mentoring conference in Seattle, as it is so consistent with my framework for sustainability.The book is inspiring, thought provoking, and packed with strategies and actions that each of us can take to transform our thinking and our lives This is one of those books that you could read ten times and still find something new It reminded me of one of my all time favorites books, Richard Bach s Illusions Adventures of a Reluctant Messiah a book I ve read and given away to friends over and over again It reads quick, like the Zanders book. Paradigms.They stick to us like that glue that comes with packaged toys that you pull off one finger just to find it stuck to another The you try to discard it, the it seems to hang on for its life That s how paradigms work, they just don t want to die or be replaced Paradigms are necessary storage spaces for our beliefs and attitudes, but they can also blind us and take away promise and hope for something better When I accept my paradigms as the only way of life, not only I suffer, but also those around me.Paradigm Shifts.They are uncomfortable, even painful at times I hang on to my paradigms because they work for me They are the canvas upon which I paint my life and I like their colors I may have a clue that they are unhealthy and damaging, but I do not want to move from my comfort zone to the place of the unknown, so I just live in my paradigms They are not necessarily world views and they are not even Biblical I have simply found a way to make them work for me I get anxious when someone challenges them, but paradigm shifts can be tremendously liberating if I move from unhealthy to life giving actions and attitudes.Jesus.He was the ultimate paradigm shift He came to change minds The Zanders are certainly not Jesus, by any stretch of the imagination I m not even sure if they follow Him However, they succeeded in shifting my personal paradigms as I read the book they authored called The Art of Possibility.As I read, I was forced to think Some of their philosophies I sifted out because they were beyond my beliefs about God and people But most of them began the deep work of shifting the way I live out and experience my world view and faith, especially regarding other people.The book is built upon 12 practices I will briefly review them here and then encourage you to dig deeper by reading the book.1 It s All InventedHow we view life and opportunity is determined by our attitude toward circumstances Therefore, every opportunity is either stifled or embraced Therefore, we have the responsibility to invent our opportunities.How to Practice it s all invented page 15 AskWhat assumption am I making,That I m not aware I m making,That gives me what I see After you have an answer, AskWhat might I now invent,That I haven t yet invented,That would give me other choices 2 Stepping Into a Universe of PossibilityPossibility is a universe we step into when we step out of the universe of the world of measurement Let us suppose, now, that a universe of possibility stretches beyond the world of measurement to include all worlds infinite, generative, and abundant Unimpeded on a daily basis by the concern for survival, free from the generalized assumption of scarcity, a person stands in the great space of possibility in a posture of openness, with an unfettered imagination for what can be page 19 3 Giving an AHow would people react, respond and perform if we gave them an A up front and allowed them to either live up to the A or reject our early assumption In a world of measurement, we try to make people earn their grade, but in a world of possibility, we allow them to live into an A.4 Being a ContributionIn a world of possibility absent are the familiar measurements of progress Instead, life is revealed as a place to contribute and we as contributors Not because we have done a measurable amount of good, but because that is the story we tell page 56 5 Leading from Any ChairNot only are we responsible to lead wherever we find ourselves, but as leaders we are responsible to give others the opportunity to contribute as silent conductors A team is not simply as good as it s leader, although that is important A team is as good as it s silent leaders those who lead from wherever they find themselves in an organization.Every leaders should ask himself when most frustrated with the performance of his team, Who am I being that they are not shining 6 Rule Number 6Lighten up We are only here for a short time and why should we spend it refusing to laugh at ourselves In the midst of tight tension, one of the most powerful things you can do is laugh and make others laugh.7 The Way Things Are be present to the way things are Being present to the way things are is not the same as accepting things as they are in a resigned way It doesn t mean you should drown out your negative feelings or pretend you like what you really can t stand It doesn t mean you should work to achieve some higher plane of existence so you can transcend negativity It simply means, being present without resistance being present to what is happening and present to your reactions, no matter how intense Page 100 Why fight with ourselves with what is It s OK to hurt and be confused Rest in it Do what you have to do to change things, but it is not helpful to live in resigned defeat.8 Giving Way to Passion If I were to wish for anything I should not wish for wealth and power, but for the passionate sense of what can be, for the eye, which, ever young and ardent, sees the possible Pleasure disappoints, possibility never And what wine is so sparkling, what so fragrant, what so intoxicating as possibility Soren Kierkegaard quote page 113 2 Steps to Giving Way to Passion a Notice where you are holding back, and let go Release those barriers of self that keep you separate and in control, and let the vital energy of passion surge through you connecting you to all beyond.b Participate wholly Allow yourself to be a channel to shape the stream of passion into a new expression for the world page 114 Zander encourages us to live long lines Do not be distracted by the cares of the world that lure us from the overall purpose and passion of our lives As a musician misses the beauty of the long lines of music by trying to perfect every note and harmony, so we miss the purpose of our lives by begin distracted by the little things that nag at us day to day.9 Lighting a SparkCommunicating creatively and going out of our way to get our message across is the key to the full involvement of others in our vision Enrollment is the practice of this chapter Enrolling is not about cajoling, tricking, bargaining, pressuring, or guilt tripping someone into doing something your way Enrollment is the art and practice of generating a spark of possibility for others to share page 125 10 Being the BoardEmotional involvement blinds Objectivity illuminates.Zander encourages us to rename yourself as the board on which the whole game is being played page 141 In other words, you are where you are and experiencing what you experience because of what you ve done When we use the tactic of blame we close the door to possibility When I proclaim that situations are the way they are because someone else reacted, responded, or acted the way they did, I lose my power to steer the situation in another direction, to learn from it, or to put us in good relationship with each other Do not close the door by proclaiming blame, but live in the world of possibility by taking responsibility to find a way in which things change for the good.Develop the habit of emotionally stepping back and evaluating the game that is being played on the game board of your life be the board.11 Frameworks for PossibilityPaint pictures of hope when you are casting vision Reflect on Martin Luther King, Jr s speech on the Mall in Washington King had a dream and he created the framework for the possibility of a better nation Within the boundaries of that frame he and others gave their life to create the broad strokes of a vision Later the details were added and a beautiful painting of a nation offering dignity and hope to all men and women emerged from the canvas.Build the frame and paint the broad strokes and allow others to be enrolled in the vision, so that together a beautiful work of art is created.12 Telling the WE Story More often than not history is a record of conflict between an US and a THEM We see this pattern expressed across a broad spectrum nation to nation, among political parties, between labor and management, and in the most intimate realms of our lives We have distinguished a new entity that personifies the togetherness of you and me and others This entity, the WE, can be found among any two people, in any community or organization, and it can be thought of, in poetic terms, as a melody running through the people of the earth The WE appears when, for the moment, we set aside the story of fear, competition, and struggle, and tell its story In what areas of your life in what social or organizational context in which relationships are you telling the WE story I hope I ve given you enough to chew on, but not to much to satisfy your appetite Read the book Maybe your paradigm, like mine, will be challenged and tweaked to produce a better you and a better them or should I say a better us for those people with which you do life together I have a conflicted rating here The composition and the presentation of the book rates 4 stars, but the value of the material rates 5 stars Not unlike Covey s 7 HABITS, seeing a live presentation of the material is transforming and inspirational than it is in the written format The basic premise of the book is as essential for everyone as it is for the apparent target audience of Leaders When you make others aware that you truly see potential within them, they tend to rise to meet that potential That is a message that should be lovingly written into every child rearing book The writers focus on how to suspend overly critical judgment of others and center on the very real possibilities contained within I am an enthusiastic believer of this, although I ll admit that I ve had a difficult time of fully incorporating the concept of Everyone gets an A Although I ve preferred the live presentations I ve seen of this material, I don t mean to imply that the book itself should be ignored There is a wealth of excellent material here, and the writing style is easy to digest I ve used this as a reference book over and over again. Not sure how to describe this scattershot Uneven Wonderful in parts I picked this up because I so enjoyed Benjamin Zander s TED talk, which you can watch here Who can resist a conductor who talks about one buttock playing So Benjamin Zander is one coauthor, and his wife Rosamund Stone Zander is the other coauthor He s a conductor teacher motivational speaker humanitarian, and she s an executive coach and family systems therapist Fascinating combination, right But the publisher said the book couldn t be entirely about classical music It had to appeal to a general audience.So Benjamin s anecdotes are about conducting orchestras all over the world, and unlocking a passion for music in young people, and making old people cry because they re so moved by the beauty and skill of these brilliant young musicians, and raising enormous amounts of money to further a dying art form And Rosamund s anecdotes are about skiing when it s icy out, and getting a flat tire when biking from Cambridge to Boston Okay, some of her anecdotes are about her patients, but they re nowhere near as interesting as what Benjamin has to say And the coauthors and the publisher have tried to impose a structure on the book so that everything hangs together as a coherent whole, and I don t think it works I definitely recommend the TED talk, and I think this book is worth a skim, but I can t recommend it overall. This isn t just a standard self help type book It s a change your thinking feel good book written for an educator s ear but can be translated into everyone around you type book Written through their own accounts and experiences, the Zanders give practical advice on how to, basically, live a fuller life Their experiences in education, though not typical Ben was an orchestra conductor and Ros, a therapist speak volumes to educators alike and different I am a fourth grade teacher and where it has reminded me to make the most out of me for my students, it has also reminded me how to be a better wife, mother and friend If you are at a dead end looking for a way out, seek help, not necessarily this book, or should I say, not this book alone If you are simply looking for a way to amplify your life and love those around you to your fullest extent possible, this is the book for you.It is an easy read, I read the first 6 chapters half the book in one evening It is spiritual, not religious, in a way that will render you speechless and fill you with an inexplicable feel good, euphoric feeling Your perspective will change and if the practices the advice given in the book is broken down into simple life practices named cleverly to help you remember why you re even doing it in the first place like Giving an A , Being the Board , Rule 6 are done daily, your life and coincidentally, those around you, will also begin to change You ll look for dandelions in empty, drab, fruitless fields where a non reader would say No way, don t look there, you ll want to persevere And then try to convince them that it might actually be possible.
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